Hey, so basically, today, I'm gonna tell you about 'what to expect' from this thing called 'University Life'.
So, firstly, it's not as the fairy tales you saw on tv. University may do you bad. What's going to make you feel stressed out the most is probably the problems you might face with your friends. It is not applicable to everyone though. Some people might just be really lucky to have good friends keliling pinggang, but to some, including me, you just gotta be really careful. Pay close attention to your friends' actions and reactions. Pay close attention to those who do not cheer for you when everyone else around is cheering for your success. They could be the ones who would be unhappy with your success and happiness. I'm not telling you to think negatively about everyone, but just be smart enough to know siapa kawan dan siapa lawan.
Some people could be quite shallow. They do not like to see you happy, or being good at something. At the same time, we have to make sure that we treat everyone right. Treat everyone how we wish to be treated. Don't be too selfish to think that it's okay to treat people wrong sometimes because it's not!!! If you don't like something that someone does, tell them. DO NOT STAY SILENT. AND DO NOT HOLD ANY GRUDGES BECAUSE THAT'S SO SHALLOW
DO NOT GET SO DENGKI OF PEOPLE'S ACHIEVEMENTS AND HAPPINESS. ALWAYS REMIND OURSELVES THAT WE'RE MUSLIMS, WE'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO DENGKI-MENDENGKI, BENCI-MEMBENCI AND HAVE EVERY FEELING THAT YOU KNOW YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE.
Be supportive of your friends' achievements, they deserve it. They have worked for it. Take them as an inspiration or something. Try to work harder so that we can be just like them. Rezeki orang lain2 so just be supportive.
Next, you will have your lepak week and sometimes you will have your chaotic week. Bila lepak memang lepak gila ah, tapi bila week tu pack, memang pack gila. Segala quiz, segala test nak ada dan segala group assg nak kena hantar minggu tu. So my advice is, make sure jangan tangguh group assg. Once you have all the information ready, just start doing your group assg. Sikit2 pun jadi lah. Lantaklah orang nak cakap kau gelabah lah skema lah blablabla, asalkan kau siapkan dulu so that bila nak quiz or test boleh belajar. Takdelah sibuk nak siapkan group assg. Orang yang shallow minded je yang rasa remeh siapkan group assg cepat2 semua. Nanti bila dah busy week baru dorang nak sedar tapi most of the time dorang tak sedar pun sebab selalu group assg, orang yang gelabah lah yang banyak dah siapkan untuk dorang. Manusia camni tak lain tak bukan hanya lah lalang. Biarkan mereka. Nak tegur pun tak guna. Dorang rasa dorang je lah yang cool, selalunya lah.
Fikiran tamadun adalah fikiran yang memikirkan sesuatu jauh ke hadapan. All the consequences and all the benefits. So anggaplah manusia lalang sebagai ujian. Mungkin satu hari nanti mereka akan sedar :(
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